Note: I am a victim of Cyberstalking. This section is for the stalker. If you are not the stalker (they know who they are), then skip it if you want.
I apologize for the interruption.
Stalking is a term commonly used to refer to unwanted or obsessive attention by an individual or group toward another person. Stalking behaviors are related to harassment and intimidation and may include following the victim in person or monitoring them.
This is MY web site and therefore the content is under MY control. I unfortunately had no choice but to do this:
TO WHOM IT MAY CONCERN: IF WE HAVE NOT MADE OURSELVES PERFECTLY CLEAR: DO NOT CONTACT US IN ANY WAY. STAY OUT OF OUR WEB SITE, EMAIL ADDRESSES, BLOG POSTS, FACEBOOK ACCOUNTS, HOME MAILBOX , XBOX LIVE ACCOUNT & WORK. DO NOT SEND YOUR FAMILY MEMBERS TO DELIVER ANYTHING EITHER. WE DO NOT CARE TO SEE PICTURES OF YOU OR YOUR FAMILY & WE CERTAINLY WOULD NEVER ATTEND ANY OF YOUR "EVENTS." MARCO WANTS NOTHING TO DO WITH YOU. THAT IS WHY HE DELETED YOU FROM XBOX. SO DO NOT EVER THINK THAT WAS MY DOING.
THIS IS A PERMANENT SECTION OF OUR WEB SITE AS A REMINDER THAT YOU SHOULD NOT EVEN BE HERE. YOU ARE NOT ON OUR MINDS, WHY SHOULD WE BE ON YOURS?
WE WILL NOT BE BULLIED OR HARASSED BY YOU!
BECAUSE OF YOUR BEHAVIOR (first it was annoying, then it was creepy, & finally it became downright disturbing), YOU LOST YOUR BEST FRIEND.
YOUR DOING - NOT MINE!! STOP TRYING TO PUNISH ME FOR WHAT YOU DID.
I am a victim of Cyberstalking
8 out of 10 cyber cowards are also wannabe HACKERS!
Change your passwords often.
Don't Do It - Don't Encourage It - Tell Someone - Be STRONG - They Are Weak - They Won't Even Say It To Your Face!! - Cyber Bullies Are Today's Cowards
Cyberbullying & Cyberstalking Defined
The updated definition as awareness of the phenomenon increases is: "the intentional and repeated harm of others through the use of computers, cell phones, and other electronic devices."
Cyberbullying can be as simple as continuing to send e-mail to someone who has said they want no further contact with the sender, but it may also include threats, sexual remarks, pejorative labels (i.e., hate speech), ganging up on victims by making them the subject of ridicule in forums, and posting false statements or gossip as fact aimed at humiliation. Some cyberbullies may also send threatening and harassing emails and instant messages to the victims, while others post rumors or gossip and instigate others to dislike and gang up on the target. Cyberstalkers are also known to sign the victim up for newsletters they do not want or need. Unknown Caller ID or untracable cell phones are often used to repeatedly prank call the victim & they often use Caller ID changing devices to impersonate others.
The practice of cyberbullying is not limited to children and, while the behavior is identified by the same definition in adults, the distinction in age groups is referred to as cyberstalking or cyberharrasment when perpetrated by adults toward adults. A pattern of repeated such actions against a target by and between adults constitutes cyberstalking.
My Cyberstalker has done the following for YEARS:
Sent me an anonymous virtual voodoo doll while I was pregnant with my daughter.
Prank called using Caller ID changing devices to impersonate someone I know.
Prank called using Caller ID changing devices to impersonate strangers.
Created numerous email accounts to impersonate others. The email content is always cruel and intended to hurt me.
Created numerous MySpace accounts to send me emails from fake men in my area to see if I would take the bait.
Instigated others to dislike me and send me threatening hate email from a fake email account.
Sent unwanted emails from their real email account even after they were told to stop. The email content is always cruel and intended to hurt me or put me down.
Obssessively checks on my web site so they can gather information to use against me.
I continue to be signed up for newsletters I never initiated.
Posted fake blog comments on my site that are hurtful or designed to make it look like I am "up to something."
Continues to find creative ways to contact me indirectly even after they were told to stop. They included my email address in their update email to their friends and family members as recent as January 2009. A fake person "replied to all" because I have them blocked and did not get the original email. NOTE: IT WAS PUT IN MY FOLDER NAMED: HARASSMENT.
Sent numerous unwanted letters to my husband at his place of employment. The goal is to plant seeds of doubt in his mind. The letters are designed to put us down while building himself up to look so wonderful & good. They are full of hate & things to try to make him feel guilty. We see right through these tactics. If you read one, you have read them all. If we continue to read these letters we are giving the stalker what they want. We are taking away the stalkers power. THESE LETTERS ARE BEING KEPT ONLY FOR DOCUMENTATION PURPOSES WITHOUT BEING READ OR WITHOUT A SECOND THOUGHT! WE BOTH WANT NO CONTACT FROM THIS INDIVIDUAL!!!!
This is what I have done to put an end to it:
I have EXPOSED this person. I told my friends & family what this person has done & I have their SUPPORT. Some were ALSO harassed by this person. We are taking a stand against this type of behavior. We don't have to take it!!!
I have told this person to STOP contacting me.
I have this section of my web site to remind them of everything they are doing to me and that it is WRONG. It is MY RIGHT!
I do not read emails from this person nor do I respond. I WILL NOT PLAY THEIR GAMES OR LET THEM GET TO ME: BLOCK--IGNORE--REPEAT.
I do not answer phone calls from unknown caller or people I do not recognize.
I do not answer calls from people they have impersonated until I am certain of their identity.
I have contacted the police & a lawyer & I am following their instructions to prosecute this person IF NECESSARY.
DOCUMENT-DOCUMENT-DOCUMENT!!! I keep every email, photo, letter & gave copies to a friend & a lawyer.
I have reported this person to my phone company. These records will be subpoenaed as proof by the police for when they are needed to prosecute this individual.
I have reported this person to the email accounts that were created to harrass me. These records will be subpoenaed as proof by the police for when they are needed to prosecute this individual.
I have blocked this person and all of their family members from my email, facebook, etc.
IF YOU ARE BEING STALKED WITH UNWANTED CONTACT FROM SOMEONE, THE BEST THING YOU CAN DO IS DOCUMENT EVERYTHING!!!!!
Cyberstalking is against the law and in Illinois is a Class 4 felony. A second or subsequent conviction is a Class 3 felony. When people are obsessed, they do not think about getting in trouble so be carfeful!!
"Be entirely tolerant or not all all; follow the good path or the evil one. To stand at the crossroads requires more strength than you possess." - Heinrich Heine (1797 - 1896)
"Never be bullied into silence. Never allow yourself to be made a victim. Accept no one's definition of your life, but define yourself." - Harvey S. Firestone (1868 - 1938)
"Laws alone cannot secure freedom of expression; in order that every man present his views without penalty, there must be spirit of tolerance in the entire population." - Albert Einstein (1879 - 1955)
"Bullies are always cowards at heart and may be credited with a pretty safe instinct in scenting their prey." - Anna Julia Cooper (1858-1964)
"I have learnt silence from the talkative, toleration from the intolerant, and kindness from the unkind. Yet strange I am ungrateful to these teachers." - Kahlil Gibran (1883 - 1931)
"The best indicator of a sociopathic serial bully is not a clinical diagnosis but the trail of devastation and destruction of lives and livelihoods surrounding this individual throughout their life."; "Only the best are bullied" - Tim Field www.bullyonline.org
****If you are a victim, please get help before it's too late.****
“Love thy enemies, it says in the scriptures. My foster mother always added, "At the very least, you will be polite to them.” ― Patricia Briggs
“If you're really a mean person you're going to come back as a fly and eat poop.” ― Kurt Cobain
This is meant to be sarcastic. I do not care what you think about me or anything else for that matter, nor do I want to hear about it. Keep your critiques & opinions to yourself!
People will always tell you what you did wrong & are quick to point out your flaws... but will hesitate to compliment you on what you did right....
Let it GO. You no longer have a relationship with my husband.
FINAL WORD: This is my last update for this section. I am not here to entertain you. I suggest you let us live our lives just like your ex-girlfriend said you both wanted in her long threatening letter to me (or was it really you? That's your M.O.). As long as you continue to harass us with unwanted contact, I will continue to document EVERYTHING. I don't have to feel threatened, scared or angry. (And I don't. I just feel pity for you.) I refuse to be your victim. We wish you no harm and we wish you well... but at a distance. We only want one thing in return:
LEAVE US ALONE!!!!
And now........ the REAL:
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HOME - Hello friends, family & web surfers!I am a victim of Cyberstalking. Please note that this is a Bully Free Zone!
FAMILY STUFF - All kinds of cool family pics, interesting facts about us, Family Member of the Month, Friend of the Month & more!
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CASEY's ROOM - The best little girl in the world deserves a page of her own. Casey's favorite youtube videos and pics. Kid tested, mother approved!!
ASD INFO - Our ASD story, Casey's wonderful progress & milestones, etc.
MY JOBBIES - I contribute to our household income & have fun doing it! :P
GRAND PRIZE WINER - July 2012 - Oh yeah!! Taking my hubby on ANOTHER trip! Round-trip coach airfare, 4 days/3 nights in a 5 star luxury resort in Hollywood where celebrites frequently stay and/or do photo shoots and have parties. Limo transportation for the whole trip, a $500 gift card & VIP tickets to the Comedy Central Roast of Rosanne!!!
This was a one entry win!
They also sent me a neat prize pack including a haircut gift certificate, J Crew hair care, a t-shirt, & a bunch of other neat stuff! Since this was all for men I gave it to Marco. So yes, I stay home and my husband works.. but I found a way to give back to him.
GO CHICAGO - Chicago's Lovable Losers & the other teams!
PICS - Photos of our family, friends, etc. More pics added all the time!
ASK WENDY! - Blogging can be fun & even good for you when it is done in a healthy, lighthearted way. While you are there, won't you please post a comment? Or better yet, Ask Princess Wendy! I may not always give the best advice.. but it's always honest!
2012 - Calendar with birthdays, family events & more!
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Engrish is HIRARIOUS!! Engrish makes fun of the many errors during the translation of Japanese to English & has nothing to do with education. It is a form of entertainment enjoyed by many people around the world. If you do not like Engrish, then I advise you to not read any further.